Choices

Have you ever done anything that you've regretted? Making the wrong choices as they said? Well, for me, making the right choices is essential for people to lead a great life. And no choice is regrettable..=]

Define right choices?? It differs. Everyone has different goals in life, some say love, some say money, some say fame. For me, I say happiness.. I mean, isn't everything we're going after, somehow makes us happy when we reached the goal? I've learned this during a peace talk conference in Multimedia University. So, to make a right choice, one must first know his/her ultimate goal. Do as u please, as long as u don't hurt anyone in the process..I carry that in my heart whenever a choice is in hand.

Sacrifices may sometimes be necessary while making a choice. For a long time, I had been having trouble with this part, sacrifices. In fact, I still have problems with it now. When two options come in hand, both are equally valued to you, how can I make the "right sacrifice"? I oppose this trouble with just these mere thoughts: either side will make me happy, yet, which side would be happier if I chose them. Am i doing the right thing? Seeking help here from anyone, your advice will be truly appreciated=].

Recently, I fell more into this trouble, when I myself (for the first time) has become one of my options. Quite selfish if you ask me. Yet, I think, once in a while, a man has to do things on his own will=p. Am I right? I'm still struggling with the choice. Made a small step, regretting a little bit. Then it came to me, you can't feel regret for the choices you have made, if that choice is truly your desire at that time. So, I decided to go with my selfish choice and hope fate settles everything for me=P..

There's all for this topic. Post me some comments.
Don't get me wrong though, I am not trying to act like some noble. I am a human being, I make mistakes and I am still making them. Posting this to read your advices and comments so that we can become better people.. Together=]

"Don't seek fault, seek remedy."